Hey everyone,
I want to give you all an update about Freddy. Luckily he found his phone
Hey brother. Just wanted to update you on everything. I did on some good note find my bionic. I went to the towing yard and searched thru the glass and busted car with no luck. Went to the scene of the accident and there was this old man outside working on his car who asked what I was doing. I said I was the one who wrecked here a few nights back. He said he found a phone and a pair of sunglasses. I got so excited! And sure enough he came out with it still holding into 1% battery after about 4 days! Granted no cell service was going to it but here it is in my hands again! :-)
Even though it is great he found his phone he could still use all of our help. He still isn't able to work but will be going back next week but his girl Kristyn is going to have a long road to recovery and won't be able to work for at least 3 months.
She will be unable to walk for about 3 months. Its very painful for her every movement from her hips down is excruciating.. she will pull thru tho with the help and support of our friends and family. . I have not been to the threads for a while. I've deleted the apps a while back so I could concentrate on my life with kristyn. And its staying that way for a while. Hope u can understand. I have a very long road ahead of me helping her. Were going to be ____ed financially for a while since she can't work and I am not allowed to work till next week. So say howdy to the bionic family for me and I'll pop in soon and say hi to all. I do miss everyone.
Anything we could do financially to help him would be great. I know everyone can't donate but I am hoping a lot of us can. I am going to go check out PayPal to try to set something up. As you all know I have never asked for money so I haven't ever set up a donation link but I am going to now and I would appreciate any donation you believe I deserve go Freddy and his family's way.
DONATION LINK FOR FREDDY0872
Thanks for the donation link. I don't use my real name in the forums, so you'll see a very odd donation coming from me in about 10 minutes - you'll know it's me, but please, keep the (real) name to yourself, I like to remain anonymous on the Net....
***Correction: I tried ot use hte link and this is what I got:
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Hello bionic family! As you have heard me and my fiancé Kristyn were involved in a rather serious car accident on saturday around 1:35AM
We are both very lucky to still be here breathing. More so Kristyn. If she was wearing her seatbelt like the law says she would of been dead instantly. I'm not going into details on the accident but the telephone pole would have instantly crushed her with the door. So sometimes not following the law will save your arse.
She has multiple fractures as obsidian stated. Most damaging was her pelvis. She will be bed ridden for sometime around 3 months. I personally have never witnessed a miracle but that night I did see one with my own eyes! As for me I've got some pretty deep lacerations on my head and hands and 2 busted ribs. Not to mention a mind that is so jacked up because of this since I was driving. I did lose my phone for about 3 days and did find it as obsidian stated earlier.
No point on repeating everything all over again tho. I will keep in touch with all of you thru obsidian. I will pop in once and a while but as you can see my life is going to be devoted to her and our 2 year old son more than anything.
I want to thank ALL of you for your support and prayers! They do help! She made her first step to recovery today by sitting up for the first time since the accident. With the help of the physical therapists of course. But in the end was able to support herself sitting on the bed. I broke down in tears of happiness and joy over that moment!
I am NEVER one to do any type of begging or anything but as obsidian stated we are going to be very much stuck as I will be the only one supporting our family financially. The medical bills will be outrageous but if some of you do wish to throw even a dollar or two I would not be able to thank you enough! I informed her that obsidian was keeping you all informed and was organizing a donation fund. She got tears to her eyes and smiled. During this week we have realized that there are still some VERY kind and helpful people in this world. The donation link obsidian posted is the same in my signature and it leads right into Kristyn's PayPal account.
As I stated if you can we would be most appreciated! I am aware most can't and that is OK! Just keep us in your thoughts and prayers please! :-)
This whole bionic family is one of the greatest supporters of not just our phones but also own own personal lives as well!
I want to wish u all a great week and I will be in touch again soon!
Take care all!
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Dude, we are *NOT* the priority. You've got a son you've got to take care of almost single handedly, for the next several months, and you've got to be the sole bread winner for that amount of time too. ____ making ROMs and $#!7, man, you don't have the luxury now, as you said yourself - you saw the miracle, you've got a second chance, and the only way you're gonna keep that mind even halfway sane is to immerse yourself in your life and your wife (and you better pop a ring on that finger b/f there is a chance for a repeat).
This may sound harsh, but I'm being real, bro. We're an extended family, but all most of us can do is sympathize / empathize and maybe throw a few bones your way - yeah, they'll help with little things, but 2yos are expensive, medical bills are more expensive, and and you've got a long hard climb up a steep slope. Coming in here and talking to us may be fun, relaxing, etc. but right now that is not your priority, it cannot be your priority. Family, in RL, trumps all. Coming in here is only gonna start making you reminisce about the good old days before this happened - and that's a long, dark, and lonely road that you really do not wanna go down, not just yet. You need healing, and time is the best medicine for now.
Like dfib, I can tell you all about the guilt of having done something that led to a horrible situation that left a deep scar of regret. Mine was the fact that my g/f was waiting on me to finish my head server duties at the restaurant that we both worked at so we could go out to the club, only to have some last minute customers walk in - and I allowed them ot come in and order food. They ended up robbing the place, pistol whipping one guy, throwing the lot of us in the cooler, trying to blow my brains out and raping three women - one of whom was my girl. Who, again, was there b/c she was waiting on me.
Seriously, dude, trust me - you do what you have to first and foremost, and then worry about us DRIODians afterward. Your mind *and heart* need healing. I'm over mine now, but I went about it the wrong way - drinking myself into poverty and almost throwing my life away completely. I'm hoping you heed me and avoid that pain - it's a lot worse than the guilt....
Also, like dfib said, I'm always available for talking to - feel free to PM. Or hit me up on gtalk (johnlgalt) if you prefer.
Freddy0872
My thoughts are with you and your family. About 5 years ago I was injured at work and spent 3 months in the hospital (6 weeks in Tampa and 4 weeks in NY), 3 weeks of which I was in the ICU. I am still having surgeries to try to give some function back to my hands (I am actually sitting in a hotel right now typing this waiting to see my Dr tomorrow). It has been very tough financially and mentally on myself and family, but through it all you need to focus on your fiancée and son and not worry about the money or anything else. I don't know your financial situation but a credit score is just a number that can go back up just like it came down and if the medical bills pile up, there is always bankruptcy (it is for situations like this). Remember to take care of your son and fiancée first and worry about the material stuff later. I would rather have my family taken care of then good credit.
Take care,
Dfib
PM me if you want to talk to a family who has been there.
Nice. Seeing this inspired me - I haven't really known anyone to go through anything remotely close to what I went through in terms of guilt and such, but this one is ripe - I see the signs already.
@Everyone - sorry if what I wrote is too ... jarring, or whatever, but it puts a lot of who I am into perspective, like being 41 and just now finishing my master's degree, among other things. I'm sorry if my post above offended in any way, but this man is in a world of $#!7 and it's gonna get worse if he doesn't have a support group and fast. I've been there first hand, and I know where that road leads. Thus, I felt compelled to say it.
Again, apologies if it offends, but I cannot let this slide.